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Question Posted Wednesday July 30 2014, 8:40 pm

Ok um a virgin my bf cam outside my virgina can i still be pregnet ?? But he dident put it in me :(

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sizzlinmandolin answered Friday August 1 2014, 6:33 am:
It is very rare for a pregnancy to occur without penetration, but it can happen. Chances are that you're not pregnant, but crazier things have happened. It's definitely something to worry about. You're going to be kind of freaking out until you get your period. Hopefully it's due to come soon. Let this anxiety be a lesson to you to never again allow yourself to use your inexperience as an excuse not to act responsibly in sexual situations. This is a question that you should have asked yourself before you participated in the behavior or certainly while the behavior was happening. Put a stop to anything that does not feel right or that you're not sure about. There is too much at stake for you to be okay with acting meekly and just going with the flow. Sparing your boyfriend's feelings for a few minutes is not worth risking a pregnancy that would result in a child taking up his and your feelings/time/money/everything for [at least] 18 years. Do some research now so that next time you're ready. Until you know the answers to all of your questions, you are not ready to participate in sexual activity. Educate yourself now. My advice to you would be to refuse to participate in any sexual activity with him unless he is wearing a condom. It's just too risky otherwise especially with your and his inexperience and lack of knowledge. Good luck.

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Dragonflymagic answered Thursday July 31 2014, 5:08 pm:
Depends on how close to the opening on the outside the cum was. Sperm doesn't live long outside the mans or the womans body. But it doesnt take much effort to travel a short distance and get inside where it had a chance of surviving and can travel across the skin in any wetness, his or yours.

So yes, a girl can be pregnant, even if there is no penis in vagina sex. All it takes is your scenerio, or ejaculate of his hand/fingers or on yours being transfered to the vagina by fingers.
So if you plan to be having sex pretty consistantly, you see now that a condom doesnt cover all possibilities. Best plan is to go to Planned Parenthood and get on birth control to make sure you dont get pregnant.

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