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Relationship
How can i convince my girlfriend to have sex with me
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Hon, Its not about convincing a girl to have sex just because you are physically attracted to her and wanting to take care of your sexual urges. That can be taken care of by masturbating. Yes, I know...maybe not as good as having a partner to enjoy sex with but it is a helpful way to do so.
Just because one has a lust for someone sexually doesnt mean you HAVE TO have sex. Unless the girl is one who is into taking care of her sexual urges the same way as guys, you are not going to find a girl who wants to give sex without there being some real relationship and real feelings there that are mutual. Most females are not into sex for lust sake but as a natural outcome of a loving caring relationship.
You may as well learn this now for the future if you ever want a long term and satisfying relationship with a girl in the future or even a possible marriage. Yes, sex is one of the important foundations of a relationship, but must not be a taking from one for satisfying ones own needs. Instead if should be a sharing with each other with each persons goal to sexually satisfy the partner they are in love with, before seeking their own needs. When that attitude is taken, both will enjoy that part of the relationship and it strengthens the relationship. Also equally important is loving the person for theirself, their personality, character, everything about what makes them who they are. Its very few young men who have learned to be a girlfriends best friend first, excercise self control and wait until both of you develop deep feelings for each other, feelings other than sexual urges. Both are important but you want to culture and nurture the other first. Its not a matter of pretending to be her best friend for a couple weeks or months and then pressuring a girl for sex, that is not right at all and and some point the girl will realize this and leave and you'll gain the reputation of a user, a player and perhaps many other girls will begin to avoid you.
Be smart. Use your youth, to date to get to find a girl who makes a perfect companion for you, that you can love and respect and treat gently. You will find you are more popular among girls and have the respect of more of them if this is who you are at core.
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Sorry pal but you cannot convince a girl to have sex with you. In fact if you have asked as girl to have sex with you and she has said no. You must stop asking.
To continue to ask her to have sex with you or to use a line such as, “If you love me you will have sex with me." THIS IS CONSIDERED SEXUAL HARRASMENT. THIS IS A FELONEY CHARGE FOR WHICH REGARDLDESS OF YOUR AGE YOU CAN BE CHARGED WITH. At one time underage males where not charges with sexual harassment. Today many prosecutors are charging males as young as 15 or 16 as adults and prosecuting them for sexual harassment.
When girls write to us and tell us they are being harassed for sex. We tell them to tell the boy no one more time. Then add that if he continues they will file a police complaint for sexual harassment.
Some girls have written back that some guys had to learn the hard way and they did need to go to the police. It’s not worth the hassle. If you need sexual relief masturbate. There is nothing wrong with masturbation. It is safe, it relieves sexual tension and you can do it in the privacy of your bedroom or morning shower. You won't go blind or grow hair in the palm of your hand or anything else you may have been told to keep you from masturbating.
According to a survey 85% of us masturbate, this would include your parents. IF you get a HJ it is a form of masturbation. So there is nothing wrong if you give yourself an HJ.
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