Long story short I still talk to my ex in occasion, and we get along OK. Since we broke up we've been in touch to some degree. I see him as a friend and solely a friend. He's now engaged which is great. Problem being is on several occasions since they've been together he's tries to get me to send "dirty" pictures of myself to him. The first few times they had just started dating, I said no but never said anything to her. Just recently he's started asking me again, which I said no, they are due to get married in 3 months. Should I tell her what he's up to or leave it be? I still have the messages in case.
Just ask yourself if this ex boyfriend is worth keeping as a friend? You can get in real trouble with him/her for being around. I would not tell her anything and leave the ex behind. Might be tough? Well, just ignore the calls and text, or just block it off completely. Forget this person and move on. If I was the guy trying this with a female friend, which I would not, this only means I want to "hook up" again.
Hardcore-Band-Geek answered Monday July 14 2014, 8:35 pm: I would talk to him. tell him that what he is doing is not cool, disrespectful to you and his fiance and if he is serious about his relationship with her he would NOT be doing that! Also if it really bothers you, tell him that if it continues you will block him. If he doesn't stop, then tell her about what's been going on. In fact, i would consider it, but you might just want to tell her first. Show her you are on her side. [ Hardcore-Band-Geek's advice column | Ask Hardcore-Band-Geek A Question ]
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