okay.. so .. theres this guy at my work.. i really like.. but he is shy, and i cant tell if hes interested or just.. idk hes confusing to read. and well whenever me make eye contact we usually stare at each other for a while then smile and i usually laugh and go on with my night at work.. he tends to flirt with me.. but those are the only true signa he could be "interested" and i have asked him to hang before..an he said yes.. he didnt ask but made a suggestion for me to come over once.. but never happend.. and when i ask him to hang now.. he ALWAYS says he might .. but never does.. im so confused..idk what to think or do..help.
Well if he's as shy as you say then you might need to be a bit more aggresive. As in, maybe next time you see him you could invite him somewhere. Make solid plans so he has no other option but to say yes or no.
Maybe you could tell him: "Hey there's this movie I want to see coming up *insert day here*, how about we meet up at *insert time here* at the movies?"
He's probably nervous about making plans or most likely unsure of how you feel towards him. So make a date and invite him.
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