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my stepdad is telling me to lower my voice my stepdad is always telling me to lower my voice even when I am not that loud me my mom and him went to logans roadhouse and it was so loud he never had a problem with it but when I started to talk he would tell me to lower my voice I hate that he needs to shut up leave me alone and get a hearing aid
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There is a reason he says that. Imagine if you lowered your voice 50% down, this would change you a great deal, you would silence down, cool off, relax and start talking on a more calmer tone than you are right now, meaning your brain would advance itself automatically making you more smarter, intelligent and lovable to everyone and if you continue this rythmn, its good living for you! Your step dad wants the best out of you, change and see the advantage. ]
I understand your complaint. Understand he is your step dad and if he feels you are loud enough that others may overhear your side of a conversation then you should lower your voice. You owe him that respect just for the fact that he is your stepdad. If in all other respects he is a good or great step dad and this is your only problem count yourself lucky and thank him for being a great step dad.
Not all men make great dads and even fewer make great step dads. We get letters every day about abusive dads and step dads that make your complaint not even on the radar. I know you don't like being told to lower your voice, I don't like being told to lower my voice. Understand others hear us better than we hear ourselves so when he asks you to lower your voice just do as he ask and be thankful all he does is asks you. ]
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