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Submissive
My gf wants me to be submissive... I don't even know what it means. Please can someone explain
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There are several different meanings for that the word submissive can be used in. First I will give you the dictionary meaning:
sub·mis·sive
[suhb-mis-iv] Show IPA
adjective
1.
inclined or ready to submit; unresistingly or humbly obedient: submissive servants.
2.
marked by or indicating submission: a submissive reply
Generally speaking when a GF or BF wants the other to be a submissive they are talking in a sexual meaning. This could simply mean coming from a girlfriend that she does not want to be the bottom as in the missionary position but rather the top in say the cowgirl position. This gives her a bit more control on how deep you penetrate her.
It could also mean she wants to explore alternative sexual practices such as BDSM. BDSM if you are not aware is Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism. This is definitely something you would want to discus with her before going in that direction.
Below is a URL to Wikipedia page on BDSM. IF this is the direction you think your girl friend is heading and you are unfamiliar with it then read this page before talking with her.
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