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Considering a meetup with a lover
I was out to eat with my husband a few weeks ago. The place was a restaurant bar. There was a good lookig guy at the bar that kept checking me out. After dinner we decided to hang out at the bar. My husband wanted to get into a game of pool with someone so I took a walk to the ladie's room. While washing my hands that good looking guy came in and stood behind me. He started to fondle my breasts and I just stood there and let him do it. I was wearing a sun dress and he reached under and pulled my panties down and I stepped out of them. He leaned me over towards the sink and started having sex with me. I did nothing to stop him and allowed it to happen. I was afraid someone would walk in on us. No one did and he made me orgasm. After he came inside me I turned around and kissed him. He asked if he could keep my panties and I said yes. I have been walking past this restaurant a few times since this all went down and I saw him inside a few of the times. I want to go in and do it again with this guy but seem to be afraid of being caught. Am I wrong for wanting this passion a 2nd. time?
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You were wrong the first time.
You have no idea who this person is. For all you know, he could be a convicted rapist who would have not stopped had you said no. For all you know, he sex with three other women before you. For all you know, he could have a sexually transmitted illness which you are now at risk for, and you are putting your husband at risk for.
I sympathize with your desire for exciting sex, but this is not anywhere close to any okay way to go about it. Not only is it betraying your husband, it's a huge risk to your safety.
Stay away. A man who would fuck a strange woman in a woman's bathroom, is a person whose character or judgement can't be relied on in any way. This is not a sexy 'bad boy' this a deeply dangerous human being who cannot be trusted.
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I have to be explicit, so I'm really sorry that this is harsh.
To be honest, people like you make me sick. You were wrong for having sex with some random guy checking you out in the first place. You have a husband and how do you think he would feel if he knew? It is seriously not fun to be on the other end of a cheating relationship- or on the first end by that matter. Do you not feel guilty at all?! Seriously. Buy a conscience, its nice to have one.
This isn't some boyfriend that you have had for a week or two. This is your spouse and if you're cheating on him and having sex with random guys like a slut looking for an affair to get yourself into, then maybe you shouldn't even be married. And I know what you're thinking: "why should some random person question my marriage?" because it's a joke if there is infidelity.
This little mini-affair will probably bite you in the ass later on in your marriage, I'm sorry. And I hope you were on birth control because it would be sad if you had a baby that your boyfriend thinks is his. (p.s. does your boyfriend have enough sex with you? because usually people that go on affairs or have sex with random people don't have satisfying sex partners.)
I'm usually never this harsh with advice so I'm honestly sorry, but clean up your act girlfriend.-talldivaofbeverlyhillz
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YES. Fact one: You cheated on your husband. Fact two: If this guy wanted to see you again he would have asked for your number. Fat Three: This guy took advantage of an opportunity and you allowed it to happen. Don't make the same mistake again.
Put this behind you and forget it. If there is a problem in your marriage work it out, get counseling or end your marriage. Cheating on your husband is not a way to save your marriage it is a way to ruin it.
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