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I dont know what to do !
Hey , I'm from Poland , and there is this girl who i knew over the internet , but she lives nearby, and she wanted some serious advice.Anyway , i gave her advice and afterwards she wanted help with her homework and i helped her.Every problem she faced , she seeked advice from me , So i thought we were like brother and sister and i said ,why not ? , but after a couple of days , she was like i love you so much.That was so weird and random , i mean we barely know each other. i don't know what to do , she loves me and she wants marriage , but i'm just being nice ,i don't wanna be rude.To be honest , shes doesn't have the looks i want. hhhh , please help me.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
That is strange to confess loving you after just a couple of days. Some young girls may experience developing feelings for the guy who comes to her rescue, like a prince or knight in shining armor like in fairy tales. This is not a true love. Young girls will be evaluating the guys they meet to form opinions of what she wants in a future marriage partner...but that is a learning process that covers the years from before high school and through college before a girl will have a pretty good idea of what she wants. So don't panic, this is a natural reaction for her.
Just tell her you don't feel the same way, just liking her as a friend only.
If she is hurt, thats part of this learning process. You can't prevent her not feeling hurt but that is for her to learn to process through on her own. Reassure her you still want to be an internet friend but don't be concerned if she says no. If she wants to continue to keep in contact, you might try to not 'rescue' her and help as often.
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For one thing, it's perfectly valid that you don't share the same feelings. Regardless of how physically attractive you are to her, you probably aren't going to be in love with someone you barely know.
You want to be nice and probably want what's best for her. Just be honest with her. Explain that you simply don't feel that way about her. She likely won't react well to this, but it truly is what's best for her.
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