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Does he like me or hate me?
Hi, I'm a 15yr old girl ,from the U.S.A ,but i live in India.
I'm extremely confused about boys in general, Last year, i was friends with this guy and I didn't know he liked me ,because i'm very oblivious, when he asked me, whether I liked him, I got nervous and said no ,because my best friend liked him too. Ever since then, he hasn't talked to me ,but keeps staring at me and I DON'T KNOW WHY? One day, in English class our teacher, paired us up together and he still refuse to talk to me, and still the next day he kept staring at me! So, does he like me or hate me?
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it sounds like he had a crush on you, then got embarrassed and angry when you said that you didn't feel the same. he keeps staring at you either to get your attention or to let you know he is annoyed about what you said. either way I think he wants you to know that he likes you, my advice to you is to maybe talk to him about it. if you like him then tell him straight, if you don't then explain to him nicely and tell him it is pathetic if he doesn't talk to you because of it. it's your feelings so it's your choice but this is all I can say. good luck :)
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He's still looking cus he's interested in just you, not your friend or other girls. If he was only interested in dating just any girl for the sake of learning what dating is all about, he'd have continued asking girls until one said yes.
I can understand not wanting to say yes if you really did like him, because of a girl friend liked the same guy. Grown women even do the same thing sometimes.
Would you have said yes if your girlfriend did not like him? Or if she wasnt even a friend of yours to begin with? We all have to learn to make choices in life based on what we feel is best for us, not what makes friends happy.
The reason he's not talking is because he is politely giving you space, trying not to interact with you in any way, even in class because he has no idea how to act now that you rejected him.
If you don't like him at all, dont feel bad, he'll eventually get over it. How long it takes is different for all people. But great disappointment and heartache can't be avoided in relationships and dating. Its a part of it.
It's not too late to change things. You could go to the guy and tell him how you feel and how your friend feels about him and why you answered as you did to not hurt your friend. Perhaps he would be just as happy letting everyone think you two are just good friends rather than dating.
Depending on the age, or sometimes the chemistry between two people, it is preferable to just be best friends/close friends with boy than to start off dating. Let dating come in later years if you are still together and ready to move to a closer romantic relationship. Good luck.
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I agree with missundersmock. It sounds like he likes you.
So just tell him the truth. He's probably just embarrassed or feels awkward and doesn't know what to say to you.
Be brave and take the next step! You won't regret it.
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Its obvious he still likes you because why would he still keep staring. Hes probly just hurt cause you didnt say you liked him back. If you like him too, then just tell him, even if he doesnt answer you or want to talk to you. Tell him you like him but that your other friend does too and you dont want to step on your friends toes because she would be really hurt. Then let him take some time to think about what he thinks you guys should do.
Ive been in this same situation where i liked a guy but so did my friend and i didnt want her to be upset with me cause she was my best friend. Well we all grew up, i got married, she ended up with someone ELSE, and yet those feelings of caring for each other still remain. Ill never know how things could have gone though because i stepped aside for my friend.
So just tell the guy how you feel and that you "know" he still likes you because you "can tell" because he keeps on staring at you but that it ok to do that.
good luck ; )
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