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Why do I feel like this?
I'm 14 and there's this boy I've had feelings for since about January, he's felt the same about me ever since then too and we've been out twice but it didn't really work. He is 13.
I'm not sure if he still likes me but I know for sure that I'm still crazy in love with him, I see him everyday at school and when I'm not looking my friends say they catch him staring at me and I have seen him doing it before when he thought I wasn't looking! When I try to make eye contact with him he quickly turns away or turns around and walks backwards looking at his friends.
Why is this?
But, I still really really like him! We used to talk so much and about everything! He'd pop up to me every night even just if it's quick and there's nothing to talk about, now he doesn't say anything to me 😤
I honestly can't stop thinking about him, I walk wherever he goes at lunch just so I can see him and I always feel like I feel sick or I have butterflies all the time because I love him so much! It actually hurts sometimes! I find myself reading our old messages and stalking his Facebook profile all the time, I can't help it! 😍
But why do I feel like this?
Can I stop it?
Someone please help me 😞
Thank you! X
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At 14, love almost unbearable, especially because the object of your love is almost always unready to reciprocate in a meaningful way. Your feelings are normal, and the energy you have is so powerful, please use it to fuel something meaningful that you could create. Put your name on a project that will make you and your community better. You're a bright, beautiful flame and even if you have to frame your power in terms like, "how can I work to be the kind of person my crush would be proud to be married to someday?" put the power into tangible efforts, get the best grades you can, find new interests, be the most fascinating girl he's ever met. Do you think you can do that?
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It is totally normal for a girl your age to feel this way! I wish you would have explained a little more about what "didn't work". I think that is where the answer lies about the way he is treating you now. Maybe he upset with you over why it didn't work or maybe he is embarrassed about it. Try to find out what went wrong. If he won't talk to you try to get someone to ask him why he doesn't like you anymore. Once you find out why then maybe you can fix it. You might owe him an apology for something you don't even realize! Whatever you do though, please don't stalk him, guys really hate this. The best thing you can do if he won't make up with you is to totally ignore him. Walk away when you see him coming and if you catch him looking your way turn around. He might just decide he wants you if he thinks you don't want him anymore! If not, it's his loss and I am sure there are lots of other boys who like you for a girlfriend! Good luck!
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You feel like this because you are a normal 14 year old girl! You are supposed to get crushes, and you are supposed to hope for something to happen between you and your crush. You cannot stop these feelings.
What you should do is smile and say hello to him when you pass by him in the halls instead of just making eye contact. Guys like a girl who is friendly. Believe me. Moi has always possessed a charm that is lethal to men.
Best of luck,
Miss Piggy
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