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My crush hates me... 😞
So, I'm 14 and he's 13. Basically this boy said to my friend that he thinks I'm annoying and he hates me, I really like him a lot and he has liked me before in that way but now he hates me. I think he said I'm annoying because my friend spammed him on MY snapchat, he knows it was her now but I still feel bad.
What can I do to make him like me again? Just as a friend at least, I hate knowing that he doesn't like me as a friend 😩😞
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Just go right up to him and tell him your sorry about the snapchat thing and that you would never do anything like that to him cause you think hes cool, and you can even ask if you could make it up to him by going out to have pizza sometime a the mall even if theres other friends there its ok. then you can get to hang out with him outside of school and he can get to see you being you, and see if he likes that.
Then if he does but still isnt sure, you can invite him places with you and some other friends, and say that you were just thinking that he might like this or that and wanted to be nice and invite him cause you thought he'd have fun.
i think it would make a huge difference if you just confronted this head on and told him sorry and you didnt know it happened until later and that you would never do anything uncool like that.
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I am very sorry this happened,it must have made you feel awful!I would send him a text and tell him you are really sorry about your friend spamming him on snapchat and hope you can still be friends. Now here comes the hard part,and no matter how hard it is,if he doesn't respond to the apology or accept it you have to walk away and let him alone. Any thing else would be kind of weird and stalkerish and I know you don't want to come off like that. I will let you in on a little secret about boys(even grown up ones) they often want what they think they can't have. If this boy won't accept your apology then the best thing you can do is totally ignore him. Pay attention to any other boy in the world besides him! He may just decide there is something he likes about you after all! I hope it all works out!
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