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2 lovers. Did I make a mistake?
So Im 16 ive been with this guy for months. And I really like him. But lately everythings been off. We haven't talked in weeks. So I mssged my ex telling him I still like him. Which I do. And then it hit me that my bf might be busy, so now im not sure what I should do. Because im panicking. My boyfriennd has been my guy bestfriend for years, I would hate to lose him because I messed up. :( pls help.
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I personally would be honest with my boyfriend and tell him that you have talked to your ex because honesty is the best policy in the relationship! ;)
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I wouldn't worry too much. If you haven't talked with your boyfriend in weeks I would wonder if he even still considers himself in the relationship. Since you are still interested in your ex why not contact your current boyfriend and let him know that since you haven't spoken in weeks you feel it's probably best if you go back to being best friends. Explain that you really value his friendship and would hate to lose that due to a failed committed relationship. My guess is that he feels the same since he hasn't called. Trust me, his lack off communication is not due to being busy. Guys make time for what they want. I'm 100 percent certain he could have made time to send a couple messages at least. So don't feel bad in the least. You've done nothing wrong. But whatever you do don't mention that you have feelings for your ex. Telling him that could ruin the friendship. It's none of his business. Just be sure to break things off with no question about it before getting back with your ex. Once the breakup is clear make your move and enjoy life.
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Yes, you've made a mistake. What you need to do is decide if you can live with telling him or not. Of course, being completely honest is the right thing to do. But telling the guy your seeing what you've done will likely kill the relationship. If you want to maintain the current relationship, you'll probably have to hide this fact. Could you live with this? Personally, I couldn't keep something like that to myself. If I were in that situation, I'd probably end things with the guy you're currently seeing.
This is assuming there's a relationship at all. You haven't heard from him in weeks and you've only been dating for months. Find out where you stand with him. Call him and ask him why you haven't heard from him, then go from there.
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