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My boyfriend ignores me
When ever we talk now it's not exactly a convocation anymore, he will ignore me when he doesn't need to reply like when I don't ask a question. I never ignore him I always answer straight away when he usually takes about 5 mins.
It's really getting to me now, what should I do? :(
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We can go on forever trying to think of reasons why he hasn't been answering you. But you'll never really know unless you talk to him.
Communication is very important in relationships. Without communication, the relationship will fail.
Talk to him in person if it's possible. Sit him down and tell him you'd like to talk about something that has been bothering you. Don't be mean, don't point fingers at him, and don't argue. Just tell him that you'd like to talk more and the way it's been going recently doesn't make you feel very loved.
If he cares about you, he'll do his best to change. He just might not be someone who likes to text. I know tons of guys like that. Just hopefully he'll make the effort to talk a little bit more.
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You start to avoid him too, keep your self busy doing something you like. Make new friends. It is not worth having a boy friend who does not love you rather find someone or choose someone who loves you like crazy. Apply it in your life and see the result.
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You should ask him straight out how he truly feels. I may sound harsh or even be wrong but he might have lost interest in you. On the other hand there might be a problem that is stressing him out to the point that you make him even more upset. There is now way for me to ever know what is really happen but the best thing you can do is talk...or try to talk and keep at it until he has no choice but to reply. but be careful because a wounded heart is like broken glass it can cut at a slight touch and for both people it will be painful.
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