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I need help fast!!
I know this is probably going to sound bad but my boyfriend has asked me to send him a paragraph alto prove how much I love him, I don't know what to write...
I've been thinking all day about what to put but I don't want to be cringy, I'm 14 and he's 16.
Anyone got any ideas on what I could write? Or it would be even more helpful if someone could write something for me to add to or to help me out, thank you!
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Usually when someone asks you to prove how much you love them by doing whatever it is they ask of you, it should be a clue to you that they know zilch about relationships and love.
Love is an emotion, just like sadness or happiness. You can only express it, you can’t 'Prove' it. It’s something that has to be felt and experienced.
Anyone who asks you to prove your love doesn’t love you yet. It’s not necessary to even attempt to prove anything to him if he's too immature to understand that love can not be proven. Be careful though because a boyfriend who asks for proof of your love may just want to take advantage of you in some way or is just testing to see how easy you are to control. You don't want a boyfriend who is a controller. It turns into an abusive relationship.
I have never asked my 2nd husband to prove to me that he loves me. He's never asked me either. Its a mute point. I already knew by his actions before I married him. If the actions weren't there, I wouldn't have married him. Actions speak louder than words.
Okay, with all that said, if you are still seriously considering writing something to him, theres an article that shows how to prove to someone that you love them but doing it the right way. Here's an excerpt:
Be truthful about your feelings and voice your thoughts about him.
The easiest way to prove that you love someone is by expressing your opinions about this special person. If nothing at all stands out about him, then perhaps he isn't doing his part to help you feel loved. When a woman feels loved, it will be easy for her to love in return. He should be following all the things mentioned in here;
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If I write the words for you when I don't even know him, then it really isn't a profession of Your love for him, it would be a made up nice sounding falsehood to pacify his curiousity. thats all. If you still don't have a clue from reading the link I gave, think about what it is that he DOES that makes you love him. I don't know of anything of this applies to him but an example would be, (using what I would say to my husband) I love you because you accept me just the way I am, I love you for being patient and never raising your voice at me, I love you being as talkative a person as I am, I love your compliments I don't have to ask for, I love your support and encouragement to pursue my hobbies and talents, I love how cuddly you are.
All that and more are things that make me feel so loved that I can't help but love you in return.
If you use that last sentence to end what you describe him as, it will put the burdon on him to be the kind of guy that a girl could fall in love with, not the other way around.
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