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why my boyfriend loves me
Does my boyfriend actually care about me and love me?
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I agree with Breezy88 we can't tell you what someone else is thinking. Without any information from you we cannot tell you or help you make any type of decision on this or any other question.
What I will tell you is this. If you two are young adults between the ages of 13 to 21 then there is something you need to consider in answering your question. Boys between these ages confuse love and lust. The younger they are the more they feel that lust and love are the same.
For some reason going through puberty which can last in to the early 20's, is harder for the male then the female. The male feels the need to seek relief from the sexual tension brought one by all the new hormones floating through him. Hence the term horny.
Part of this I believe is the fact that need or desire for sex is or can be on display every time he gets an erection. During puberty a boys erection is an involuntary reaction. He does not need any visual or other type of stimulation to have an erection. I forget how many an hour a boy can have but it was something like 6 to 10 every hour without any thinking on his part.
Yes he can masturbate to relieve this tension and many do, some multiple times a day. Still their preference is to have sex with a girl and they will do and say anything to get what they want. To the teenage boy lust and love have the same definition which is not the definition a girl has for love.
Some boys will say something to the effect; "If you love me you will have sex with me." If a boyfriend says this or anything like this such as; "let me show you my love by making love to you." These are lines that say he lusts for you.
Sex is not the way you show your love for someone. Sex is the result of a loving relationship that has had time to grow and mature. Yes when your older and more mature I'm sure you will have your share of recreational sex. Now is not the time for that as you are not ready and neither is your body.
In the end you have to decide if he truly loves you or if he is lusting for you. I have given you some signs to watch out for in making that decision.
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You didn't give us any information as to why you are questioning if your boyfriend loves you or not. Also, we cannot tell you if your boyfriend loves you .. nobody can tell you if your boyfriend loves/cares for you except for you and your boyfriend.
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