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I have a crush just on Internet
I'm from Chile. I have a crush just on Internet and we didn't even see each other in personal because she lives in Australia. We are world apart and we are both 17. I've known her for 7 months and we kept chatting and she even stays up late just to talk with me. I love her so much. She is really nice and sweet and known her family as she described. I can sense that she loves me too because few weeks, she told that she likes me. Idk if just for frnds only. We even had a fight then it led up to telling she doesn't like me coz i'm stupid and I told her that I don't like her too. But of course ik it's joke. I can she loves me. Should I do the first move and tell her how much she means to me?
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You are infatuated with an internet friend and probably she is too. Don't rush your feelings sweetie. Be calm and don't think too much as if she would like you if you woukd express your feelings.
Why not tell her that she is your bestfriend? At least at that way you could keep her close to you and at the same time that would serve as a partially constant barrier between you two.
It's better to speak up your mind and express your feelings. That would tell her how much she means to you and how important she is. But keep in mind also the disadvantages for that like for instance, she'll stop chatting with you or avoid you. Think of those possibilities for at least you'll be guided and at the same time you would be reminded of what you should do.
Remember that Love, LIke and Lust differ from each other. Don't be too sure yet if she really love you and you feel the same for her.
I would say that it's not love you feel but it's like or an infatuation. Butterflies in stomach when you see her online or your heart is racing, that's not a sign of love. It's an infatuation brought by a magical feeling talking with her as she always makes you feel you are great and worthy.
Infatuation is a start of love if both of you would be lucky enough. You both are world apart and still too young. Keep a barrier between both of you until you'll be grown up and meet each other. Who know's probably it would be the time to express your long-time unspoken feeling towards her.
I'm almost as old as you. But haven't been inlove or infatuated online but i like someone. So literally, that feeling is just too basic. You're way to young. Don't stress yourself thinking about her. Go out and have girlfriends coz you are still at your "mind flourishing stage". All you have is to enjoy while you keep her close with you.
Make her your princess and probably someday she'll be your queen. I hope this would help sweetie. Godbless you.
Feel free to ask me.
'Blueheart'
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You should go for it. If someone spends time waiting for something to happen, they often miss the opportunity and might not ever find out the outcome. So take a deep breath, tell her how you feel and see how she feels. It's the only way you'll know for sure! Good luck!
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