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I Haven't seen this girl in two months!! Will she forget about me???!?
I Haven't seen this girl in two months!! Will she forget about me???!?
there is this tutor I work with in the tutoring lab in this community college I went to. She's great and a wonderful person to be around with. She is about 27 and I am 22 and she is engaged, One thing I noticed about her is that she was very touchy feely. , like patting me on the back or shoulder.
I worked with her for about two years and my class ended in June 2013. In fall of 2013 I attended a university but I saw her around campus ( I already knew she attended there too) when I was going to meet up with a friend recently and chatted with her. I started getting these weird feelings about her
now I find myself going out of my way to that location just so I can hopefully see her and talk to her again. One time I went and sat there for about half an hour (I had nothing else to do though so I wasn't skipping anything) I just get this extremely good feeling when talking to her or seeing her. Is this wrong?
honestly, I actually feel upset if I am trying to find her and I don't see her. I haven't seen her at all the last two months and I feel almost depressed. She said at the end of last semester that "I'll see you"
I am not trying to get with her or anything but she is the only girl that has given me any attention really or actually initiated conversation with me so I like to see her
please don't say "Don't look for her". Why is it wrong for me to want to still be acquainted with her?
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You need to see a therapist.
This all the advice you are getting from me from here on out.
You have asked at least 10 questions on the subject of this engaged woman since October. In each question, you've added (and left out) information and parts of the story, in what seems like an effort to make your behaviour appear less obsessive and problematic than it truly is.
This is also not the only obsessive line of questioning you've engaged in on Advicenators. There are other topics on which you've asked very similar questions, over and over again, sometimes providing self-contradictory statements. I'm not sure if you are doing this as some sort of experiment, or just for fun, or if these questions really reflect your life and mental state, but because I am a level 1 moderator here, I can see the other questions associated with your account, and because I'm not an idiot, I can see you plainly use at least two accounts on this site.
I'm sure you are genuinely depressed and upset by no longer seeing her, however, I don't believe for a moment that seeing her again is going to cause you anything but the most temporary good feelings, because your crush on her is clearly not at the crux of your problems.
Your behaviour towards her and the feelings you've described, plus your behaviour on this site on other topics, means the only piece of reasonable advice I can give you is to please, please, please, go talk to a mental health professional. You don't need to live with these sorts of fixations, fantasies and anxieties, but in order to address them properly, you need to work one-on-one with a pro, and be honest with that pro. Coming here, over and over and over again, to ask basically the same question and try to alter the outcome and get the advice you most want to hear, isn't going to help you. You don't need friendly advice from a stranger. Your questions, when seen as the whole pattern that they are, need a more serious intervention than we can provide.
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You have a close friend it seems but she has gone out to do other things away from you! She will remember you if you two used to talk alot! Like how its been a few years since i ever saw my Best Friend and i remember him and i bet he remembers me! Have you tried calling your friend at all?
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