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blowjob
uhhm okay so i want to give my bf a blow job but i dont know what to do..... any tips?
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No one knows anything when they start off with a partner. Often in life through break ups, we have occasion to experience different boyfriends, mates or husbands. I can tell you that every sex partner I've ever had is different, different in what they respond to, what feels good, same thing for guys with girls. Even something just like kisses can feel different.
If you are thinking of surprising him with this and springing it on him as a surprise, thats a nice thought but what if he isn't ready yet.
Don't have sex ors do sexual acts to win brownie points with your guy, do so only when you're ready and have deep feelings for him and want to do this for him as a gift.
So just come out and tell him that you been thinking about wanting to give him oral sex and ask if he'd like to go ahead with that and talk you through it, telling you what to do. He will be touched that you asked and even more happy that you are willing to have him show you what he likes.
Imagine a guy assuming what felt good to you in stimulating your clit with fingers or doing oral sex on it. You're going to be even more sensitive than him cus the clit has an extreme amount more of nerve endings than the head of the penis does.
If he wants to seem experienced and just does what comes to mind, you may hate it, it hurts or you feel nothing, or he brings you to arousal and then does something to alter his movements so you lose it. All this kind of stuff needs to be communicated, not just once, but throughout each session. Being someone who has had sex for decades, more often than not, even with a long time partner there comes a need to communicate to him or him to me while we're making love. Something that felt good yesterday for some odd reason doesnt feel good today. Just ask him hon, thats the best thing you can do.
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