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BOYYYYS!!! Ugh!
My friend has a flirting problem. It's probably why it seems like a lot of guys like her. At the beginning of the year she liked a guy who told her he liked her back and said he was going to ask her out. He never did and ever since then she keep saying she likes this person or this person and she thinks everyone likes her too! It's super annoying what do I do?
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1. What can you do about your friend flirting and thinking everyone likes her?
Answer: Nothing, thats her life to live and learn from. You may care about her as a friend and so when you see her doing something that does not produce good results, its hard to stand by and say nothing, but unless she asks for your opinion and asks what you think is wrong, theres nothing you can say because she wont be in the frame of mind to hear it.
2. What can you do to stop feeling so annoyed?
Answer: The better thing is to understand why you feel annoyed to begin with. Teen girls going through puberty can get hit hard with hormones and these with throw your emotions out of whack, such as being extra sensitive, cry too easy about nothing or get angry and into fights or on the less drastic side, just feeling irritated or annoyed too easily for no reason, or about things that you shouldn't be focused on. You can't avoid having overly sensitive emotions during most your teen years to some degree or another. Its pretty much normal by time you hit 17. So until then, when you are facing something that is beginning to irritate, make some excuse to leave for a few moments to be alone, if nothing else, a bathroom stall. Close your eyes and take several deep breaths. Focus on the feeling of your lungs inflating and deflating again. Wait until you feel your emotions return to normal and then go back to your activity. If you are in a situation where you can not leave, you can still take a couple deep breaths, find a focal point for your eyes while you do so.
Your title: "Boys! Ugh!" makes me think there may be a 3rd unasked question about how to understand boys. If you think the boy who talked to your friend and said he was going to ask her out and never did, just doesnt make sense. It makes sense to me perfectly. He had enough chance to do more talking with her and discovered more about her, things he did not like in behavior and that immediately turned off his interest in her. How to attract a guy is not what most teen girls seem to think and are doing. If you want to learn what things not to do that would kill a guys interest in you, you will need to study that...for yourself...you cant make your friend study that until she see's the success you have and wants to know what makes it work for you. There are many good dating tips and relationship tips for girls on you tube in short video's. If this is a concern to you and you can't find any...let me know and I'll help you come up with some.
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