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i need advice how to not use condom or pills and not get pregnant
Hey iam 17year old and form india, i want to have sex with my girlfriend can i control my sperm as i don't want to use condom and get her pregnant, i don't wanna use pill to stop pregnancy.
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I don't know if birth control is forbidden in India or not, if not, and taking a hormonal birth control is something she'd prefer not to take, she should check with a womens clinic or her doctor to see if the IUD is available in India. It is a device that is inserted into the uterus, will last up to 10 years, a doctor can remove it at any time before she is ready to have children and it won't interfere with her ability to become pregnant when married and ready to.
Light of truth told you the rest already, there is no way to 'control' your sperm other than having an operation, called a "vasectomy", in which the tube inside of you that supplies sperm to your ejaculate fluid is cut and tied off so it can no longer flow. But this is final, meaning you can no longer get any woman pregnant for the rest of your life so if you want kids some day...this would be the thing to do after you've had as many children as you want. Other than a vascetomy, there's no way to control the sperm
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If you don't use condoms or birth control, she can get pregnant. There's no other way around it.
Condoms also protect against STIs and you don't want to get those either.
You can't exactly control your sperm, because even if you pull out before you ejaculate, you can still get her pregnant because there is pre ejaculation that contains sperm and can get her pregnant as well.
So you need to use both condoms and birth control or you'll end up getting her pregnant.
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There are two reasons to use a condom. The first is pregnancy protection. The second is to prevent the transmission of STDs. Condoms do not stop all STDs but it does stop many of them and is effective in stopping the transmission of the HIV/AID virus which is quite high in certain parts of your country.
You may not have any symptoms but could be a carrier if you have had unprotected sex with anyone infected with an STD or the HIV/AIDs virus. The same is true for her is she has had unprotected sex with anyone who has had sex with any person infected. Condom use protects the health of both of you.
As for controlling your sperm; there is no way to do so. You might be able to withdraw before you ejaculate. During intercourse you emit a tiny amount of lubricant. This lubricant has enough sperm in it to impregnate a woman. You do not feel this emission so you cannot control it. This is why condoms are rated high as pregnancy prevention.
IF you do not wish to become a father at 17 or possibly become infected with some STD or the AIDS virus, use a condom when having sex.
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