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My boyfriends ex is better than me. I feel like a downgrage for him. :(
Hi, I am a 20 year old from Nevada. So I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now. He would not mention his one ex because he thought that I wouldn't know her. Finally, I asked for him to show me whether I knew her or not. He showed me and she was the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. She is tan, curvy, fit, thick long hair, gorgeous smile, perfect green eyes, and everyone seems to love her. He says that her beauty is fake and created only by makeup. He also said the reason why he broke up with her is because he had found out that she had sex with all of his friends. For some reason I can't find myself to believe him. With a girl as beautiful as that, I feel like a downgrade. I feel more insecure than ever and I don't even know. What do I do? How should I even feel? What now?
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You know what is really unattractive? When someone shows lack of confidence. Just because someone is beautiful doesn't mean they were the best person or had the best personality. This girl may have the looks but obviously he didn't meet his expectations somehow. NOBODY is perfect
You are not a competition of any women, You are with him and he is with you that is all that matters. This guy's ex is a has been, She is the past and you both need to put it behind you and focus on the relationship you have now. Who gives a shit how pretty she is, It may even be true she has a bad rep. Wouldn't you rather be YOU then be someone with a bad rep? I sure would.
Point is, She doesn't matter. You need to learn to be happy with who you are. You're boyfriend is with YOU, He picked YOU. Being insecure is only going to hurt you and your relationship. Stop worrying about everyone else and old baggage and learn to be happy with yourself.
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You shouldn't be feeling this insecure. He's with you now, he wants to be with you, not her. He finds you attractive and it doesn't matter whether her beauty was created by make up or not. You don't personally know her, you don't know what she's really like. Even if she was the nicest girl in the world, you need to start working on your confidence or else you'll lose your boyfriend just because you thought his ex was better than you.
Believe it or not, looks aren't everything. He's happy with you, let it be and don't try to ruin what you guys have.
So my advice is to start working on your confidence, forget this other girl, and enjoy what you have with your boyfriend.
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You should feel proud for yourself each woman is beautiful in her way.on your question on what to do try to trigger your boyfriend on only looking at you and no other girl that you must find to do it by yourself.on the what now part it was an ex you should forget about her but be careful on your guy because he may cheat on you because as you said you dont know the reason of why they broke up
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