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is it right to suicide?


Question Posted Saturday February 1 2014, 8:25 am

I m failed in ny school preliminary exams and I m in std 10 if my parents will they will beat me a lot and they will be worried a lot and I have decided to suicide ....
is it right ...

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NonStopTalk20 answered Saturday February 8 2014, 12:10 am:
NO!
NOT OK.
Get help turn in your parents make good with your life.
Get help hun

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adviceman49 answered Sunday February 2 2014, 10:37 am:
Suicide is not the answer, it is the wrong solution to a solvable problem. As a parent myself I find it hard to believe a parent would physically abuse a child for failing an exam particularly a preliminary one, though I guess anything is possible.

You have convinced yourself that you're in for a beating when your parents find out you failed the exam. If by a beating you mean something other than a reasonable spanking, which is considered punishment and in my view uncalled for here. Then on Monday go to a trusted teacher or your schools principal and tell them what you believe is going to happen to you.

Be very descriptive of what you believe will happen. As I said as unjustified as I believe a spanking would be. A proper spanking is consider a proper punishment for a parent to deliver if they feel it justified to do so. Actual beatings are not punishment they are abuse and a crime.

Spankings can be taken too far and go beyond the point of being proper and become abuse. A hand spanking to bare bottom as embarrassing as that may be is proper. If a parent were to use a belt, hairbrush, slipper or any other implement other than their hand then they have exceeded proper and are in the realm of abuse. So it is important to explain what you mean by beating.

If beating equates to abuse the school officials have no choice but to contact Child family services to protect you. This is the proper solution to your problem. Make sure to tell the teacher or principal that you are so scared of what your parents will do to you that you are contemplating suicide.

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wittedpanda answered Sunday February 2 2014, 5:18 am:
Like Logan said, suicide is not the solution. You still have your entire life left ahead of you, and when you get old enough, you can make sure your parents aren't a part of it.

What you should do is contact child protective services. Although, I've never heard of someone threatening to set everything on fire, it could be just what you need to deter them. Or, it could possibly backfire and just make them angry.

Whether you report your parents, or scare them into leaving you alone, show them you will not stand for their abuse and that they will not get away with it.

Do what you will, but remember not to ACTUALLY set anything on fire.

Good luck,
Panda

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LoganIsJustLogan answered Saturday February 1 2014, 1:17 pm:
No, suicide is not the answer. My dad was beaten when he was a kid all the time. Next time your parents beat you, tell them you will light them, and everything they own on fire. Say it like you mean it. This is what my dad said to his parents, and he was never beaten since. You may also consider calling Child Protective Services.

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