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How do i act like a tomboy?
OK how do I act like a tomboy n what would I do.how would I dress n do my hair.(I'm a girl) Because I really want to be this guy friend but I don't want to seem desperate like other girls.
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You don't want to "act like a tomboy". Because acting is pretty much faking it and that's not how you want to win over a guy. You want him to like you for you.
All you need to do is be yourself. You don't need to be desperate, just dress how you normally would dress and as if you're not trying to impress a boy.
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I would like to point out a problem with your idea and it's focused on the word "Act". How to act...means you would not be yourself, you would be "Pretending" like taking on a role. Actors and actresses "pretend" to be the character they are portraying in a movie role.
Just be yourself. You can be yourself and not come across as desperate seeking a boyfriend like other girls.
How do you usually dress and do your hair. If you don't wear much makeup, or non at all, you dont wear perfume, do your nails or spend hours to make your hair look extra fancy, but you find yourself doing all this to impress a guy, then stop. The key is to be yourself. Lots of guys prefer the natural look, no makeup, a no fuss hair style, like the hair hanging loose, pulled into a pony tail or into a hair clip. Guys don't usually confess to the girl they don't like all the fuss they go through to impress them cus they dont want to upset the girl. There are guys who prefer natural beauty to what hollywood, and the fashion and makeup industry present as what guys desire. Young guys just starting out are overwhelmed at times by their hormones and when they go looking for girlfriends, dont know any better and look for what media has shown them as being desirable. But these guys who are pursuing the 'made up' girls who act desperate for a guy, are more likely to be hoping to have just sex than have a whole relationship.
Dress in what is appropriate, such as jeans for school or a walk or biking riding with him. Wear a dress to a fancy go to dinner or to a movie.
As for how to talk to him, how do you talk to your girlfriends. Your girl friends are friends because you have some things in common, some similarities in personality. So find what you have in common to talk to a guy about, topics may vary a little, like he won't be wanting to talk about the latest new nail polish or sales on clothes. If you've got a guy willing to talk to you but still feel awkward, then you might confess you don't know much about guys or how to act around them so you hope he would be nice enough to help you understand guys better and what they are like in general. Each will have their own personal tastes and will share that will you if they know you're open to hearing it.
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well, try not caking on the make up and be yourself. look nice, be neat and smell good. Be yourself abive all, guys love that.
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