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Question Posted Sunday January 19 2014, 12:42 am

Just can't believe you . I can't believe a young teacher would see a bunch of teenage boys shirtless and not check out any of them, especially a gym teacher to see their physiques

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Razhie answered Sunday January 19 2014, 7:09 am:
You'd just be better off if you did believe me. I am right.

Unless your teacher is a sexual predator - which is staggeringly unlikely and you've suggested nothing that would make her appear to be - she just doesn't see any of you that way.

I haven't been attracted to a 10th grade boy since I was in 11th grade. Frankly, I don't know any adult women who have, and teachers, teachers are even more immune because they have to deal with the behaviour of 10th grade boys all the time, and lets be frank - even if a 10th grade boy actually did have an attractive, adult body (and I'm sure there are a very few out there who may, tho I haven't seen one) there is still nothing attractive about the behaviour of 10th grade boys to an adult woman.

No amount of your believing your teacher has sexual interest in young boys is going to make it true. It's simply not the case.

Honesty, the fact you ask this again and again says far more about you than it does your teacher. You may want to consider discussing this with a therapist or counsellor before this kind of irrational thinking interferes with your life in negative ways. You need a healthier recognition of the difference between fantasy and reality. It's find to have fantasies - it's not fine to be always trying to force your reality to serve those fantasies.

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lightoftruth answered Sunday January 19 2014, 1:50 am:
I'm 19 and I'm not checking out 14/15 year old boys at the beach. I even have 25 year old's who don't check out teenage boys at the beach.
It's one thing to acknowledge that someone is attractive, but checking them out is a different story.
Most women teachers aren't attracted to their teenage students, believe it or not.

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