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Do I ask her out?
17F she is 20F
So there is this girl at my work that I'm interested in. We've been working together since august but haven't really talked a lot until now. We've been talking for a good 2 weeks now, maybe more. She said she thinks she's into girls, but I'm still willing to try with her. And it seems like she is flirting but if she's kinda bi, then it's hard to tell
Is it too soon to ask her on a date?
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After two weeks time of talking, it shouldn't feel odd at all to ask her since you've actually worked together, you're not total strangers who've only talked two weeks. The natural stage after the conversation stage where you boYou'd hear her out maybe and those th like the talking and feel enough in common, is the dating stage where you can find out even more about each other. As for how soon? There really is no standard of measurement for that. What is important to look for is that you feel comfortable when with her and she seems to feel The natural stage after the conversation stage where you boYou'd hear her out maybe and those th like the talking and feel enough in common, is the dating stage where you can find out even more about each the same way, eagerly looking forward to seeing each other again, that sort of thing. It can come after just a couple of days of in depth talking or a couple of weeks. Waiting any longer is useless and can actually be a detriment to you because, the person she is really is still not fully known to you so your mind creates a fantasy girl and fills in all the missing info as you imagine things with her. Taking too long to date in person means you may fall for the image you've dreamed up in your mind, which may not match who she ends up being in real life with you. She may not be able to live up to the imagined image and you lose interest, become bored and instead of really trying to get to know the real her which you may like, you give up. So now is a good time to go for it.
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