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I asked him if we could hang out tomorrow and he told me that he has family parties for the next three days and i believe him because i dont think hed lie to me een if ehs pver me.but i asked him again what about the time before your parties and that snapped him and he told me that im pushin the boudaries and that hes already giving me a chance to hang out even if he really doesnt want to and then i may have just ruined it by pushig the boundaries and thst he doesnt even think that he wants to hangout with me anymore(which is ronic cause he toldme he didnt wsnt to hang oht with me but then after he said he did?) and then he told me to stop thinking about myselffor once and that this isnt the first time something like this had happened.because i tend to be really clingy or panicky(at least since we broke up) after a long time where we woulldnt see each other. Hm i dunno.. Is it really time to shut up suck it up an move on? I think im going to try to give this one last shot if hes fine wieth hanging out with me one more time..
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