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do you have any wishes to be a teenager again


Question Posted Friday December 20 2013, 10:12 pm

im asking this to Dragonflymagic im a 24 year old male who used to be a teenager and i understand that they have immaturity in them maybe not all of them but most of them for example they talk about stupid things watch crude programs such as Skins Family Guy and Archer they listen to stupid music like Soulja Boy Justin Bieber Lil Wayne Paramore Miley Cyrus and Kanye West they read overrated books like Twilight and Mortal Instruments they also like crude movies like Warm Bodies 21 and Over and Springbreakers also like to throw eggs at peoples house and obsess about disturbing things and they want to drink and smoke to be cool so do you have any wishes at all to be one again becuase i however do not but right now im stuck in my 20s close to my mid 20s in the next few years i will be in my late 20s becuase most people that age dont act the same way teens do if you could do it would you .

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Dragonflymagic answered Friday December 20 2013, 11:25 pm:
Before I answer your question, I would like to point out a scientific fact that while our bodies become fully mature somewhere along in our teens, our brains do not. the frontal lobe responsible for making good decisions or even perhaps having good taste in things worthy of our time and attention, that part does not fully mature until our mid twenties so 24, 25, 26. However as you have probably noticed not all peoples bodies matures at the same rate. Some guys started shaving long before others and some girls had chests in grade school while others didn't til later. Same thing with the brain maturity.

And now I answer your question, yes I would go back to my teen years if I had too for I was one whose brain had developed and matured a bit faster and I was one who made more responsible adult like decisions. However I would skip the first marriage. I married young at 20 and stuck with him 30 years and it was a big mistake. Mainly he hid his real self and fooled all of us including my family. He was verbally abusive but we were church goers and christian and divorce was frowned upon so I stuck with it. So there are things still to be learned later in life too.

Be happy with where you are at. Find people who have things in common with you. A good thing to try is Meetup.com Its a website where you can put in your city and then look up topics of interest and see if there are groups of people interested in the same thing who meet weekly. Once you join a group which is free, you can also post and have on line discussions. I have used it. My daughters have used it. Middle daughter your age uses it alot. She has made friends with many who have the same interests as her like yoga, natural health, meditation, new age stuff. And the daughters have met their guys either through work or these social groups.
Well, happy Holidays to you.

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