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The concerns
The concerns I have are not just the teachers she but she is that young and teaching a swimming class where the boys in the class will not only be in swimsuits in front of girls but also this young teacher. This seems wrong.
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You think, because she is young and female, that she is sexual threat to your son.
That is that is the very definition of discrimination on the basis of age and gender.
You have given no reason to believe she is anything other than a professional, skilled teacher. The ONLY reason you have given for making such a HORRIBLE judgement of her as to think that she would sexualize her students, is her age, and her gender - two things she cannot change. That is sexism and that is ageism. You are discriminating against her!
There is just as much (if not, actually, statistically far more) risk that any other people, of other genders or age, might have sexual or predatory thoughts about your son, as there is risk that she would.
You have presented ZERO reasons to suspect such a horrible thing of her, except your own bias against her age and her gender.
You are utterly and completely in the wrong here to judge this teacher in this way, for those reasons.
Are you sexually attracted to teenage boys? Are you incapable of being around a bunch of 15 year old boys without thinking sexual thoughts about them? I certainly have no problem. I'm not attracted to young teens and I wasn't at 24 either. Why do you assume such a horrible thing as that this women would sexualize her encounters with her students?
Most people are good people. You have no reason to assume she is an evil, sexual predator. Stop doing that. I can't stress strongly enough what a horrible thing it is for you to be accusing her of this - even just in your own mind. You have offered absolutely zero justification to think such a horrific thing of another human being.
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