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No contact part 3
Well my friend just told me that today he laid hi head on this girls lap. That girl was the one who tried to get him to leave me when we were still together and before i read your advice i freaked and messaged him. I asked him if his streess has gone down by anything and he sai that it'll nevver go down because his life will always be super stressful. And then after saying i thiught soem of it will go down if i stopped talking to you and he told me that it doesnt work like that then had to go because he has a speech tomorrow and told me talk agai. Later or whatever. Idk what that means at all. Should i keep with the no contact rule for a month? The thing is that when we meet in person he isnt as cold to me and typically i think that he still thinks of me as his girlfriend when we see each other in person the difficult thin i getting him to agree to go. What should i do now D:
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Yeah, I'd just give him space. If he's talking to another girl, he's probably just really confused. I think if you guys stop talking, he has more time to think with a clear head.
You might even find yourself doing new things and being a happier person without him, he'll notice and probably regret letting you go because you can end up happy without him.
It's a good thing that he's not cold to you and is still friendly with you in person. So as long as you keep it on good terms, smile when you see him but don't talk, things should be ok.
After about a month goes by, start talking to him a little bit, but not a lot. If you cut the conversation short by saying you've gotta go do this or that, he'll know you have a life outside of him. Then maybe the next week talk again, keeping it casual and then you can eventually find out where you two stand.
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