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can you give me some ideas on how I will tell my mum I got discarge and I need panty liners?


Question Posted Monday December 16 2013, 2:12 am

Hey I just want to no um well I get like yellow and brownish stuff in my undies and I no it's discharge but I have it every day and it's turning brown and I'm really scared and embarrassed to tell my mum if she can get my any panty lines can you give me some ideas on how I will tell my mum I got discarge and I need panty liners

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Dragonflymagic answered Monday December 16 2013, 11:30 pm:
Adviceman gave you a wonderful answer. Yes dear, go talk to mom, she'll understand.
Coming from a woman, as to the two different colors, both are normal I can assure you. the yellowish one is your bodys normal cleaning system working, constantly self cleaning your vagina. (Its best to leave it up to nature and not use dueches as that will cause infections.)
When the discharge is brownish, it means that a flow of blood is soon to start but is being delayed a long time so the spotting is actually like older drying blood. This occurs when your first period hasn't come yet. It can show up between your periods if they are delayed due to illness or stress or something like that. So don't worry, theres nothing wrong with you. This is normal. So just go up and ask for panty liners and tell her you have some discharge and think your period will start soon.

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adviceman49 answered Monday December 16 2013, 11:09 am:
First: There is nothing to be embarrassed about especially in talking to your mom. Remember you and your mom are built exactly alike and she will remember what it was like when she was your age.

Second: If mom does your laundry I'm sure she has noticed the stains by now. Rather than say something to you and embarrass you by doing so she may be waiting to see if you are going to come to her.

What is happening is a normal part of growing up for you. If you are having discharge every day and have yet to have your period then you will soon be getting your period. Talking with mom will help you be prepared for when your period does come. If you have already gotten your period and are still discharging this stuff every day then a trip to a GYN may be in order for you may have an infection.

If you do have an infection and plan on having children someday. Then you need to see what this problem is and get it taken care of. Mom has many years of experience in dealing with her menstrual periods. She will have the right answer for you as to what needs to be done.

This is not a sex problem or sex. This is a bodily function for you just like any other bodily function. If you were constipated you might ask mom for help. Why should this be any different just because it deals with your vagina and womb.

Don't get uptight or embarrassed about your body with members of your family especially mom and in the future your husband. We can't give you the loving help and support we want and are meant to give if you don't share with us what is wrong. When something is wrong, when your body is not working right, what ever part, there is no reason to be embarrassed to tell someone who loves you.

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