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My qustion is about me wanting to have sex Well I'm 13 and I'm craving sex like real dick I'm tied of using my pointing fingurs I want to feel my body Aginst a males body some times I even want to do a female these feelings are going on lately what should I do?
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Well I've stumbled along that path before its our hormones that makes us act and think in different ways. Its ok to question and wonder and be suspended to this desire but think of the future consequences. The sex might be delightful but what if your protection breaks, what if you got fertilized and is able to have a child (if you have your period). Think about others who care about you how would tgey feel if these outcomes resulted to a castraphe. Think ahead and know what you may be getting your self into! ]
These feelings are something everyone experiences going through puberty. Your body is still going through changes and is not fully mature yet so it is best to wait before having sex with a partner.In the meanwhile, your sexual debut is a long process that starts with discovering all there is to know about your sexual organs, giving yourself orgasms
If your mindset is to not wait until you're older but find someone for sex now...then you can't go off half prepared for it. You must be prepared ahead of time for protection against STI's and also against pregnancy. Unfortunately, our brains are not as mature as our bodies and won't be mentally and emotionally mature enough to be able to handle all the situations that may come up with becoming sexually active. But a sex positive clinic can be of help in any training, checkups needed and contraceptives and condoms. Planned Parenthood is the most widely known one in the States, but there may be some clinics by a different name where you live. Do a search on line for your area.
In the states, young teens can be seen by someone at a clinic regarding their sexual health and reproductive issues without parental knowledge and there are laws that protect your privacy so there is no disclosure to your parents of what goes on between you and the clinic. ]
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