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Question Posted Monday November 11 2013, 9:29 pm

I juspt want to die

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adviceman49 answered Tuesday November 12 2013, 10:50 am:
If you are familiar at all with this website then you must know that helping you die is not something we will do for you, if that is what you are asking. If you want to live then we will do all we can to help you.

There is no problem so large that death is the only answer. I realize that at the moment you are in a lot of pain. Pain causes depression. Depression causes us to see things not as they truly are. It causes our perception to be off. Though since we perceive it as such it is real to us as perception is real. So understand that what you may see, hear or feel may not be truly be what has been said or what you are seeing.

Since you have not said what is bothering you. The only help I can offer at the moment are places you can turn to for one on one help through hotlines answered by trained call takers.

The first place to turn for help is of course the 911 emergency line. You do not need to be a certain age or have anyone's permission to call. Just dial 911 and tell the call taker what is bothering you and help will be sent to you. If the problem is with a parent abusing you, sexually abusing you or a sibling is. The police cannot be turned away. They will insist on seeing you and will take you someplace safe.

The next hotline is the National Suicide Prevention hotline. It operates 24/7 and is answered by trained call takers. No matter what problems you are dealing with, They want to help you find a reason to keep living. By calling 1-800-273-TALK (8255) you'll be connected to a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis center in your area, anytime 24/7.

If the problem is something to do with bullying at school or other social problems or problems that young people tend to have. There is another hotline called Kids Help Phone. This line also is answered 24/7 and is for people under 20. Their number is 1-800-668-6868.

The last hotline is for people that may have suffered some type of sexual abuse or rape. It is called RAINN and stands for Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network. Their number is 1-800-656-Hope. If you have been raped or abuse in some manner they can help you deal with it. This is not something you can hide from and takes professional help to deal with. They will work with you and help you find the right professionals in your town to work with.

as I said this is generic advice based on what I know to be the top reasons people want to die. Any or all of these people can help you if you let. Dying does not solve a problem. It just creates problems for those you leave behind.

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