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Jake, idk what the hell is going on FRUSTRATED!
Hey KatieKat,
I know its been awhile. After that whole Jake bowling thing, things were kinda going back to normal, you know small talk here and there. So than two weeks ago, I kinda just put myself out there and text him "Hey,sorry this is out of the blue and feel free to say no to this, but do you maybe want to get drinks?" Than he "I would love too, but I can't 2nite, because of a midterm due at midnight. When were you thinking of going? So I said how about saturday night? Didn't text back. Than at the I texted him when I got out of work and just so do you want to go when you have time? and said "yes defintely." I said "when?" NOTHING!! So ever since than, he hasn't text me at all. And we recently run into each other, and I kinda go the other way because I'm embarrassed because I feel he just blew me off. Like the other day, I was coming back from dropping of the mail and, he comes out of the door and we look at each other for awhile until I looked away and went back upstairs. And the worst thing is that I still like him. I just wish he could just tell me what's he's thinking and instead me guessing. I just wanted to hang out to get to know each other better, not anything too serious. And if wasn't up for that I wish we would do me, instead of getting my hopes up and not following through. So,my coworkers say I should say something, but I don't even know what to say. I just feel stuck, because I want to move one, but I can't until I get this situated, and I honestly kinda don't want too. UGH i'm a mess! please help me
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I dunno. Kinda sounds like he's keeping you on the back burner. Or is just the most forgetful person ever. Personally I would confront him face to face but it sounds to me like he would tell you something wou want to hear and not the truth. I think you've given him the benefit of the doubt a few times and it's time for him to play his part or time for you to move on.
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