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I don't know what to do ?! who do i choose??
so i have a boyfriend but i'm starting to create feeling for one of my best guy friends named G. Me and G have been friends for 5 years and i'm starting to create feelings for him because i'm realizing that he actually cares about me but i have a boyfriend. i really like my boyfriend but my feeling for hi are starting to fade as my feelings for G are starting to grow. I don't know what to do like do i stay with my boyfriend or try to start a relationship with G? and also G likes a girl but he wont tell me who and that makes the situation so much worse because i don't want to make things worse by telling him that i like him when he likes someone else. I honestly need help because I've been developing these feelings for one of my closest friends and i don't want to say anything that would ruin our friendship and also ruin my relationship with my boyfriend. I care for both of them truly but my feelings towards them in a dating relationship kind of way are leaning more toward G because i barely ever see my boyfriend but i see G all the time and talk to him more. i need help on what to do please!!
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Whenever anyone asks questions about choosing between two people, I tell them to wait.
Obviously don't stay with your boyfriend if you have feelings for someone else and you have no intention of trying to move on from them. If you also find out that the girl G likes isn't you, it still wouldn't be fair for you to stay with your boyfriend.
So take a break from your boyfriend. Give yourself some space from both of them. One you figure out how you feel, then go from there. You don't need to rush, you can take as much time as you need.
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I'll bet money that the girl 'G' likes is you.
But one thing you should keep in mind, is do you think you're losing feelings for your boyfriend and gaining feelings for G because he's new? The beginning of these things are always exciting and once you have been with someone for awhile, the excitement fades. That doesn't mean you should move on and find someone new though. I would say you should look at your relationship with your current boyfriend before you do anything. Look at it and don't think about G. Look at all the good things your boyfriend is and does. Then consider the possibility that G isn't all that amazing. (Things are still fresh with G and its hard to see bad qualities about someone when its so new). Maybe you'll be better off with your current boyfriend? Try looking at it in that light and see how you feel. Who knows, maybe you would be happier with G but is that a risk you're willing to take?
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