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how do i make her like me?
I have this crush on a girl that i really like. But i get the feeling she likes somebody else, how do i make her like me?
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Well truth is you can't make anyone like you, you can change your personality to the one someone likes or even change your appearance to the one someone likes but in the end that wouldn't be you they like. Just keep being yourself and if she comes around, she comes around. And if she likes someone else you can't really change that. Just keep doing your thing because even if she doesn't like you, best believe someone even better will come around who does.
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You can't make anyone like you.
I think the most you can do is show her what a great person you are and see if she takes notice. Talk to her, get to know her some more, be friendly and sweet and dress your best.
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No one can force another person to like them. So you can't 'make' a person like you.
But you can do your best to make sure a person takes notice of you and knows you exist. If there is chemistry between you, then she will be attracted too. Sometimes the popular girl has no boyfriend cus they are all too afraid she's out of their league and don't bother trying or assume because she talks to a guy alot that he's her boyfriend. Many girls have written in here who have a boy as a best friend but she doesnt have romantic feelings for him.
So here's what you do. Guys who like a girl find excuses to get near them. Walking up to them and saying hi. Hanging around and joining a conversation, if you stand close enough to be arms length away and she doesnt step back to create more space between you, then she likes you enough to not be turned off by you. That is one body language thing people do with those they are interested in. Finding excuses to bump up against their arm or touch them in other ways is good too. Compliment her, smile alot at her. I will post two links, one on body language clues, and one on innocent flirting that is not glaringly obvious. If you employ these tactics and she backs away or asks What do you think you are doing or stop bugging me, then obviously she is not attracted to you the same way you are to her.
In life, sometimes it isn't fair but the interest is only one sided. When it is, be mature about it and leave the person alone and move on to search for a new interest.
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This 2nd link says how to touch/flirt with a guy, it all works for a girl too, you can even reach out to pretend to smooth some hair of hers down, saying that she had hair sticking out...of course not when anyone else is around to refute that. I like the remove an imaginary eyelash on her cheek, so dont wait for an opportunity to touch, create the opportunity. Good luck
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