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Make boyfriend really happy?
My boyfriend(we'll just call him Tim) and I are in High School and we started dating Last Sunday Night and we have been good friends since Middle School. Don't tell me we are too young to be dating because I know people who have met their true love at the age of twelve. Anyways," Tim" has a good heart in him and he always does little things to show he cares and I appreciate those little things. Obviously, Tim is with me because I already make him happy but I feel like I need to do more in me and Tim's relationship. Also there is always School Staff watching us..in the halls, classrooms, outside, etc. Any suggestions? (:
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What do you mean by doing more?
Since you said you always have school staff watching you, it makes me assume that you want to give him more public affection. I think the most you should do is holding hands and hugging, especially in public. Making out in school isn't attractive, you'll see it happen a lot, but just don't..
Anyways, you can do other things like he does. There are tons of things to show people you care. One of my friends was at the store and said she saw my favorite candy and decided to buy it and give it to me. It was really nice to know she thought of me and even bought me my favorite candy.
One time I stopped by the gas station going over to my boyfriends house and decided to pick him up a drink.
Little things like that do mean a lot.
You don't have to buy him things, especially if you don't have the money. You can also make him a card or write him a note. It doesn't have to be all sappy, but it can just be a short note to let him know you were thinking about him. I mean you can even get a sticky note and write "Thinking about you :)" and stick it in his backpack or binder.
Just be creative. He'll love and appreciate whatever it is you decide to do for him.
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What you mean by feeling you need to 'do more' could be interpreted a couple ways. But since you follow it with School Staff 'always watching', i assume this pertains to PDA's public displays of affection between students who are dating.
I do not know what you are already doing so what the school rules forbid so my suggestions, innocent through they may be, could be against the rules.
Under watching eyes, I would say holding hands and greeting each other with a hug should be appropriate. If it's a Christian school or in the bible belt area, they may not even like dating at all which could explain why you sound defensive at the beginning, not wanting anyone to say you are too young for dating.
If you would like to know how to flirt by touch, in innocent ways read the following link. If I have this all wrongly interpreted, please explain better what you need as I'd like to help.
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