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Thank u so much.your advice really help me to make my decision.yes you are right. I am from India.and In India women treats like a playthings of man.and here,womans virginity gave much more importants than her nature.My boyfriend love me but when he finds that i am not a virgin and i lied to him,he can't accept me with my past. I KNOW THAT I MADE A BIG MISTAKE TO LIED HIM.but that time i feel very ashamed and shy to tell all the stuffs of my past.my ex boyfriend is just like a beast. He tortured me a lot for money.he abused me mentally and physically when i just 15years old.so i broke with him.and after that i met my current boyfriend.he is orthodox by nature though he is a nice guy.but after knowing my past he behave in negative way.i say sorry more than 100times.but everyday he makes issues with my past. He also had a relation with a girl.but she cheats on him.i don't cheats on him.I love him truly,deeply. But he things that i also cheat on him. I hide my past for sake of my love and my relation. IS this cheating ? To hide my past ?i know its a big mistake but he can't understand my point why did i hide it from him. HE said that he became dirty by his body to have sex with me.because i am not a virgin!! This types of words hurts me a lot. I tell him that then leave me if you can't accept me.but he don't wanna leave me.
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As to his
saying you are cheating by having a past with another guy, whether he knows or not, he is very mistaken.
Cheating is only possible when you have already made some kind of commitment to a person, and you did not have a relationship with him at the time you knew the other guy.
Keeping the truth from him was wrong but he is also wrong if he thinks he can have a good relationship with you and never forgive you and punish you for the rest of your life for that.
As for his claim you made him dirty, he had sex too before meeting you so if having sex makes a person dirty, then he was dirty too. He idea's are silly and make no sense. There was no contamination such as being exposed to and catching a disease from the other...so no he was not made dirty...it's all imagined in his head.
He doesn't have to leave you, you just leave him.
You tell him it is over. If you have no where to go and it's his place, then you may have to find a place to live and a job before you leave but it will be worth it.
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