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is oral sex a sin
I am a really big christian and I want to know if oral sex is considered to be fornication a sin and will you go to hell if you comment the act if you don't repent
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If you believe the Bible, it's considered a sin.
But I don't believe that you'll go to hell for it. I'm a Christian and I believe the only way to go to hell is if you haven't accepted Jesus as your savior.
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I used to be with the Christian church. Still believe in Jesus and God but I do not believe 90% of the dogma the church teaches anymore. I have come to know for my own life that God does not really care about what we do, as long as what we do does not hurt us or hurt anyone else.
Sin is a word used in archery. A traveling pastor once explained it. In archery, an arrow is supposed to hit the bullseye in the center. When it misses, the miss is called a "sin". So sin means to miss the mark. As far as what <Christianity teaches, sinning really would mean that instead of meeting Gods standards, we fall below His standards, or miss the mark. When you don't get an A on a test at school and the goal is to get an A, then any other grade is missing the 'mark'. Life hon, is all about learning. Our souls are in school. A student who messes up on his lessons is not ostrasized and called a sinner. I am not sure hell exists either.I have read many books of people who have died and come back to share what they have seen. Several have said hell is a place that Christianity has created. The thoughts of all these people go into creating it. God is a loving father and does not send anyone to hell. Souls who are misguided decide they are too bad a sinner and don't deserve to go to Heaven, their home. Basically, like an errant teen, they run away from home and take off for Hell. It is your decision to enjoy sex in any way shape or form as long as your partner feels the same way.
Christianity is very strict. They don't even want you to have any sexual thoughts. If you do not have a sex partner, they do not want you to even masturbate, etc. etc. Look up the health benefits of sex on line. It is actually very healthy for an individual to have sex for many different reasons. Christianity is teaching someething that is actually contributing to harmful conditions to a person eventually to not have sex in any way, including oral sex.
What IS important is that if you realize you are part of the family of God, then you might want to imitate and become like your Heavenly Father who is LOVE. If everything you do is done in love and because of love, then thats all that matters.
Take time to learn to hear from God, build an ability to hear from Holy Spirit. He'll guide you better than the church can. Thats how I learned on some issues what is important to God and what is just church doctrine made up by Man that does not even come close to representing what God says and wants. Blessings to you !
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