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Making out
I can't say my partner is good at kissing. He's not very experienced in that area and I haven't said anything to him about it.
I don't want to randomly point it out and hurt his ego while we're in the mood so what should I do?
He uses a lot tongue and opens his mouth up and little too much, it's really hard for me to follow.
Is there any subtle way to show him or do I have to straight up tell him? If so, how do I do it?
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People have different preferences in this area. You could try to take the lead when you kiss so that he follows you. You could too sit him down and talk to him. Don't tell him that he is a bad kisser, just mention to him that you would take more pleasure if he could kiss you ... (tell him how). If he loves you he'll kiss you the way you would like him to, to please you.
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Even if he learns to not open his mouth so wide, if he still has a desire for french kissing and you don't, then neither of you should change your likes to please the other. Keep that in mind. People can develope their own natural preferences in kissing, flirting, romance and sex.
If after talking to him, you discover that he simply didnt know and is willing to drop the french kissing, then great
But if its something that he feels a great need for, then don't change him, the two of you need to find someone else that matches you better.
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Hi! Not everyone starts out as a great kisser, and people have different preferences. I recommend that you say something to him about it. Maybe you could sit down with him sometime and tell him how you like to be kissed. By doing this, you won't be directly criticizing his technique but simply letting him know about your preferences.
You can try telling him not to move his lips or do anything and then kiss him how you like to be kissed. Ask him to do the same thing back. From there, give him some more tips on how to do it and what you like.
I found an article that might help you as well:
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Good luck!
~Athena
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