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Over protective mom
Hey, I am 18 years old female . I need advices on how to tell my mom to let go. My mom is over protective, crazy Dominican mom. I have tried to tell her that it is abt that time to let me experience the world on my own, but she doesn't understand she calls me all the time n doesn't let me go out w my friends, when I am in college she forces me to come home every weekend to stay at home. she doesn't even let me go outside to walk my dog on my own , I am a good person , I get A's at school dnt do drugs all I want to do is make my own mark I am going crazy she doesn't want me to have friends all all actually n I am starting to build up rage against her even tho I love her. Tried to get counseling she wouldn't come help !
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This is a hard situation to be in.
I do know a handful of parents who are still overprotective with their children even when they're adults. Your mom doesn't know her place. It's really hard for adult parents to adjust their role in your life, especially moms.
I think the best advice I can give you is to sit down and talk to her. Tell her that you are an adult attending college. You have friends, you want to hang out with them.
You can't really "make" her stop. You can't really make anyone stop doing anything unless it was illegal or something. So the most you can do is reason with her.
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