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my boyfriend doesn't care
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I know you explained that I should go down on my boyfriend too. But I just don't get pleasure off that or simply I don't like oral sex. Im not really sure? The only reason i let him do it is because my boyfriend says he wants to do it on me. He wanted me to do it on him once and I told him I couldn't and he didn't care I find that bad because I can't return it. I told him the way I felt and still didn't care. He said he wanted to give me pleasure. The only thing I do for my boyfriend are hand jobs but I just don't like oral I don't know if something is wrong with me but I also have dental problems with my teeth their sensitive. But I don't know if I should ignore this. I believe in inter sex when marriage and so does my bf but were not big on religion
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There is nothing wrong with you. As I said sex is a learned experience. If you are not comfortable with a certain sex act don't do it, this would include giving your boyfriend oral sex. Down the road you may change your mind and that is your choice.
As far as allowing him to have the pleasure of giving you oral sex. Here again it is your choice. All I can tell you is giving oral sex to a girl can be very fulfilling and enjoyable for the male. This is of course that the female receives pleasure from what he is doing. I think you said you felt okay while he was giving you oral it was afterwards you felt dirty. There is no reason to feel that way but if you can't get past it and this harms your sex life together than you have every right to tell your boyfriend to stop.
Remember what I said about consent and consensual sex. Both of you must consent for any sex act to be consensual. Even if you consent just to make your boyfriend happy then the act is not truly consensual.
There is one other thing about a good sex life I may not have mentioned. In order for me to know your likes and dislikes when it comes to sex or anything else in life; you need to tell me. I know what most women like in bed but every women is just a bit different. You need to tell me and show me what you like, how you like and what is a big no or turn off for you. If you don't then the result is the difference between a so-so sex life and a terrific sex life. The same goes for him too. You need to know where and how he likes to be touched. A hand job is not always just jerking up and down on his penis. So talk to each other.
Yes it is sex, the dirty deed. But the dirty deed is meant to be fun and can be if you know your partner's likes and dislikes. Then when the time is right and you're ready to bring a child into this world you can do the deed for what it was truly meant for. Until then enjoy a good sex life for practice makes perfect and eventually a baby when you want one.
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