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I am the cause of chaos in my home. What must I do? (Not from USA)


Question Posted Wednesday September 25 2013, 12:20 pm

This is Lilliana. Alri8 I need help I seriously do !!!!!
Your answer to that particular " TELL ME SOME WAYS TO COMMIT SUICIDE" question helped Me too, Coz I was on my way to finding some ways for fast painless death. Nd ur'e answer brought me back or made me think, about my little "I'm on a suicidal mission" mind or whatever was it .
but I need to tell u dat m an ordinary girl who dreams of Damon Salvatore at night. Nd that I hv family issues.My mother nd I nowadays hv man-eater troublesome fights nd my daddy's, nature towards me is hectic. He is always blaming me of every thing that happens in our house nd BCOZ of him my mamma nd I hv physical fights I never ever wanted my life too turn out like this .I feel like everything is over it's finished. Today we had a fight once I again and I felt there's, no need for me to live if I'm the reason behind chaos crafted in the house . Tell me wt to do???

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Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday September 25 2013, 9:56 pm:
When there is fighting, abuse and/or violence at home, the kids almost always think that they caused it. Any psychiatrist could tell you that. The fact is, it is not true.
If your parents fight with you physically, thats physical abuse, if they verbally put you down and name call and such, thats verbal abuse. There are some issues going on internally with your parents that would still be there even if you had never been born. It sounds like they need to see counselors and you would need it to recover from the abuse. So family would be what I suggest but I dont think your parents would be willing to do this is they have not come to the conclusion on their own that they need some mental health and that what they do is affecting you. It may come better from another adult. So talk to any adult relatives and ask for their help. Talk to officials in school and ask them what can be done. You have nothing to be embarassed about personally so though it might be uncomfortable, share with them how home life has made you feel. to what extent it has brought you to wanting to end your life. There must be some agencies in your country that can help. You just need to discover who they are and perhaps other adults can help you do so.

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