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There's this guy and long story short we sexted sorta like RP with no pics


Question Posted Thursday September 19 2013, 10:56 pm

We sexted and it was sorta like RP because no pics and we got into a fight because I ended up liking him and at school the way he looks at me, (I'm 15 and he's 14) it's like we're the only people there. The girl he's sorta hanging out with looks EXACTLY like me so does he like me?

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lightoftruth answered Friday September 20 2013, 10:02 pm:
It doesn't sound like he likes you. It just sounds like he's attracted to you.

A lot of people have an attraction to certain types of looks. I doubt you guys are similar in personality too.
Plus you guys already moved past the friends stage without being in a relationship and usually it doesn't turn into a relationship because he's already getting what he wants.
It's not impossible but you're probably going to have to ask him how he feels about you if you really want to know.

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Dragonflymagic answered Friday September 20 2013, 8:22 pm:
When anyone is doing sexual role play, it's because first and foremost in their mind is getting their sexual needs taken care of....its like when your tummy is empty and growling...your thoughts are going to be on what you can find to eat to take care of that hunger, you are not going to be thinking of another person of the opposite sex and because you really care about them, wonder if they would like to have dinner with you.
If you do think about another person, it's going to be an add on thought.
Boys when their hormones are going aren't always going to be happy with masturbating. With each new step, they're gonna want to experience more.
I think you probably realize that.
Yes, most all guys will think of sex first...after all sexual visual attraction is important. Even if its just RP stage right now.
If she looks like you, either he has a fetish for dating twins...which is highly unlikely or he just is drawn to a certain look and it doesnt go any deeper to whats inside, what the persons personality and character is like.
I could bet you money that she is only like you in looks, not on the inside though. That alone should answer your question. If he's not looking any deeper than skin deep, does he like you?

Anything having to do with romance, and anything sexual is supposed to be something special that a person engages in with another person they really have deep feelings for. Otherwise, even sexual rp is just taking care of a sexual itch caused by raging hormones. Don't be so quick to do RP sex pics or anything more with a guy unless you don't want anything more meaningful and it's okay if you're one of many he wants to try out, like a different pair of socks each day.
Here's a site you might find helpful on dating and relationships and even sexuality topics geared toward teens and college age by a college age gal. Enjoy.
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