I cannot explain why in this day an age parents and others still tell their children these tales about masturbation. Specifically because according to recent surveys 85% of us masturbate. Your parents most likely masturbate alone or together.
When masturbating together it is called foreplay and is done to excite their partners prior to intercourse. Part of masturbation includes oral sex, fingering and hand jobs. When done as part of foreplay it is called mutual masturbation.
In some marriages one partner's sex drive is higher than their mates. Rather than cheat of their mate they will masturbate to satisfy themselves. There is nothing wrong with this.
There is nothing wrong with you masturbating. It is a safe way to release the sexual tension brought on by puberty. You cannot get pregnant from masturbating or get a girl pregnant while masturbating.(AS long as the boy does not ejaculate on the girls vagina if doing so together). You also get to explore your own sexuality while doing so by learning what your body likes as for as being touched.
So go ahead an masturbate. Just do so in your room with the door closed and locked, if possible so you are not disturbed. There is nothing worse than being disturbed in the middle of an orgasm. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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