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How to make penis seem bigger during sex
Hi all,
I've got a girlfriend whom I absolutely adore. We've been together for 2 years now, and have been living together for 12 months. I am very much in love with her, and i am convinced that she feels the same - I feel very lucky.
One thing though; she's hinted at my penis being a bit on the underside. Not by much mind, I'm 6 inch and she once said 7 would be ideal as that length she's found 'hits the spot just right'.
Now, my sexual experience is very limited (to her only in fact) while she's been with others before me. That doesn't bother me at all - except for the fact that I still feel like I'm blundering through the dark.
I really want to make her 100% satisfied, with absolutely everything - sex included.
So, what techniques or tricks in bed can I use to make my bit seem just that "bit" bigger to her? Her all time favorite possi is her lying on her stomach while I...well you know :P
Are there certain movements that I can do? Please Please Please any tips (guys and girls too please!)
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I have watched many video's that teach about G-spot and A-spot orgasms.
You did not mention if you've been able to give her Gspot orgasms which you accomplish by entering with two fingers only up to the 2nd knuckle cus thats how far in the g spot is and using a come hither motion on that spot...in case you didnt know. There are many sites on web that explain this. I found a guy who does nothing but make videos for guys about how to pleasure women, Lots of it is free but he also tries to sell things. Theres enough info for free to figure it out. in the link I will provide, of you scroll down, he talks about the A spot which is likely the spot your girl friend is talking about. Although, If she isn't having g spot orgasms first, I kinda doubt she's having a spot orgasms...it might feel realy good but never gotten to that point. The diagram shows where both spots are and how the a spot is maybe 3 1/2 to 4 inches in. Even when the vagina is longer during arousal, a man should still be able to stimulate it. To be frank, I have had sex partners who are 5, 6, 7 and 8 inches long. 8 was too much and actually gave pain. But any of the others were able to give me a spot orgasms. However, until I had my first g spot orgasms, I did not have orgasms with the partner inside me. So, it make take a little studying on your part and then bringing her in too on what you find. There are also some nice sex tools that can be used to reach the a spot. You'll have to try different positions to see which ones angle you the right way to hit the spot no matter what your length. I think the only guy who may have problems is like the one who was too long and if he wasnt hammering the cervix, he plowed into areas to either side of it, hitting nerves and giving me instant painful charlie horse cramping of my legs. So don't worry about your length. Spend time studying with her how to practice on becoming successful in bringing her to g and a spot orgasms. Many women hold back on g spot ones cus they feel like they need to pee cus the spot we're discussing covers the front of the urethra to the bladder so it feels like an urge to pee. If she's worried like I get about wetting the bed, use a towel doubled in half. Somes I stay dry, sometimes I dont. Not all women can gush or do the female version of ejaculation but she can still enjoy the orgasms so dont worry if she doesnt gush as you practice with her.
Good luck and enjoy.
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Razhie is right, there is no way to make your penis bigger or feel bigger/longer. Different sex positions, such as the doggie position your girlfriend likes allows for deeper penetration. There are other sexual positions which allow for deeper penetration that you can look up on the web just by using a search engine and the words; "sex positions or Sexual positions.
One of the nice things about sex is experimenting with sexual positions to find ones you both enjoy. I would not worry about blundering. Your girlfriend loves you and I believe from what you have written you are satisfying her sexually. That is really all that counts as far as sex concerns. As the two of you get more in tune with each other you will both improve in your love making.
The only other thing I can recommend is to talk to her. Communication is key to everything we do in life including sex. Find out what she likes, desires and fantasizes about. You tell her about your likes dislike and fantasies. In the bedroom there is nothing weird, strange or of limits as long as no one gets hurt and BOTH OF YOU ARE IN AGREEMENT TO TRY SOMETHING. Reluctant agreement does not count; you both have to be willing without reservation and if either one says top you stop or use a safe word.
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Which position will give her the most pleasure depends almost entirely on the unique configurations of her body. There is no trick, or one position that is certain to give the illusion of more length.
Google sex-positions and give some a spin.
The other option takes a bit more self-confidence than most young men have: Sex toys. If she would like more length or girth or whatever... there are always sex toys, ones you can use on her, and even ones that can fit over your penis.
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