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Was this a stupid thing to send to a guy?
i just sent this guy that i liked in the fifth grade this, "hi. i would have said this in 5th grade but i didn't think we were good enough friend but it's probably going to sound even weirder from the computer but, oh well. i thought it was pretty weird that i liked you cause at the same time i liked justin and it was all very weird and confusing at the same time. abby agrees with me on this one but do you think that there was even a remote chance that you maybe liked me even just a little bit? (this is coming from the 5th grade me)". was that stupid?
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I would gave comfronted him in a different way, I first would not have used anyone's names.
I would if maybe said something like this;
"Hey, I know this may sound random but I really like you, I am sorry if this is weird for you but I wasn't sure how to approach the situation. Would you be interested in hanging out sometime? "
This is straight to the point without making it a big deal. You said wgat you wanted and left the ball on his side of the court. Now it would be up too him to whether he wabts to continue or not.
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All I would've done different is make it shorter, more to the point without adding the names to two other people in...thats what makes it hard to focus on. He doesnt need to know you liked someone else and He doesnt need to know what Abby thinks. Its wonderful you have Abby to talk to about stuff like this tho.
But don't get worried about what you did write. Guys aren't as good as girls when it comes to communicating and the majority if they like a girl haven't a clue how to start talking to her to let her know they are interested so its a good step for you to ask. I like how you said "do you think that there was even a remote chance that you maybe liked me even just a little bit.?"
That is comfortable, non pressuring and of course shows you are not going to just assume anything, and you don't sound desperate to find a boyfriend, so it shouldn't scare him away.
At your age, people are just learning how to talk to the opposite sex comfortably and learn the differences between how guys and girls think and what they say. You can never guess what they meant, even if it seems obvious. So guys your age are mostly just dying for opportunities to become close friends with a girl to learn this stuff. They don't need to neccessarily feel a strong romantic attraction but actually like you as a friend. And thats a good start, better actually. Everyone has to start somewhere.
Good luck with everything dear.
Any other relationship with boys type questions, I'd be glad to answer for you. It's the people who don't ask and want to learn who have to do it the hard way.
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in one way....yes, it might seem a bit weird for him. on another hand, would you like to have spent your life thinking 'what ifs'?
if you don't ask questions, you don't get answers.....let me know what his reply is, you never know! :)
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