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Is it OK to feel this way about my mother who is going to jail? My mother is going to jail for six months for a financial crime. Instead of being scared or anything I can't help but feel a little excited maybe is the word about my mom being in jail. Not in a malicious type of way but more in a teasing type of way. Not because I hate her or dislike her. On the contrary I had a good relationship with her but I definitely find it kind of funny that my mom is in the punishment situation now and is taking orders from others and it might give her a different perspective on certain things. Also because I know she is coming back in six months (not very long) and is not going away from forever or for years and years.
Also the fact having her gone for six months will give more freedom. I guess it is kind of childish to think that way but I cannot really help it . I actually told my dad some of these things and he said it was OK and he was glad I was instead not acting hysterical about it and even joked back "maybe you;re mom will understand how it feels when she punishes you, maybe when she comes back things might be different".
oh and some people might say I must have some underlying issues with her, I don't. Really
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I feel/ felt the same way with my dad. He was constantly going to jail, but i just somehow felt happy.? Because maybe he would change(but he didn't) and he is still doing stuff he shouldn't. And i wish he would go back to jail. So yeah, its perfectly fine. :) Hope i helped ]
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