is it possible to be in love with someone for years ? even after a year ? or say I have a boyfriend later in the future but i still have love for my ex ..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday August 27 2013, 9:02 pm: Yes its possible to feel something for an ex, whether he was a great guy or an abusive one. Our hearts get easily attached to a person no matter how they treat us. Its love but it may not be the "in love with" which is a much deeper love.
Here's what happens.
Our subconscious mind is where all our feelings and emotions are based. It has a memory of the feelings attached to a certain person, so when your awake mind/ or conscious self makes a decision to move on for whatever reasons to another partner, the heart is still being led by the subconscious mind. Sometimes you can learn how to speak to your own subconscious and tell it that its time to let go, that you will not be getting back together with the other person ever so instead of romantic love, it can just learn to have love for the person, just like you would love a sister or brother instead. I hope this explains it [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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