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I'm at the end of my rope.
I literally have no idea where to turn anymore. I'm 5 months pregnant with no job. I've been trying for a month to get hired and nobody has even interviewed me. My rent is due September 1st and my bank account is in the negative. My parents are already paying for a car and my insurance and don't have any money to spare. My boyfriend spent every single cent of his check and didn't even bother trying to help me. I just want to give up, what's the point of trying? I have nowhere to go. What am I supposed to do?
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The point of trying is for your unborn child. To give them the best start in life like your parents gave you.
Its hard to get a job, but at 5 months pregnant, put this to the back of your mind for now. They'll look at you, (and i know this is wrong) but they will be thinking, here's a lady who will do us 3 months work, and then we still have to pay her to go on maternity leave. They wont give you a job-when your competitors if we are talking fast food chains are fully flexible students.
Do you need a vehicle? Because I would like a car too-doesn't mean I have one, because I can't afford it.
There's nothing wrong with using public transport. I would get rid of your car. If you can't afford the insurance you shouldn't have it-you need money to live off.
For now focus on your new baby. When you feel able to go back to work, try to get flexible hours so theres no paying for childcare. There are ALWAYS carer jobs available-try this, if anything to get your foot on the ladder.
If you still prove unsucccesful try volunteering in a charity shop. It gets you work experiences and gives you a much better and respected CV. Then you can apply for the big shops and retail sectors. Unfortunatley these days if you havn't got experience, you can't get a job. Volunteering is therefore your best bet.
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First off because you are unemployed, sign up for section 8 and they will help with rent and utilities. Also sign up for wic, this help provide food for you and the baby when it's born. Another thing to sign up for is food stamps. There is no doubt they will help you tremendously. All of these applications can probably be found at your nearest job and families. They do help a lot during pregnancy, I used everything during my first two pregnancies. It really takes a load off. You can also sign up for cash, because you are unemployed. If you have any other questions, send me an inbox. You do not need to be employed for section 8, I was unemployed when I signed up. They considered it as an emergency and I got benefits a lot faster than others. And also don't let others make you feel bad about accepting help especially when you have no choice. I hate people that criticize those who go on welfare and make them feel like crap. No one knows your situation better than you. You determine if its the best and less stressful route until you get back on your feet. I used welfare until I finished school, but it was enough to make sure my kids were taken care of.
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Try fast food, I know this isn't exactly a dream job but they are usually the ones to hire.
As much as it isn't what you want to hear, I think at this point you may want to consider adoption. From what you have written, The timing doesn't seem right for you.
Raising a child now would put more stress on you and would be unfair to the child as at this time you aren't able to give it what it needs.
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In order to qualify for section 8 housing you must have a source of income. They will not take you if you are unemployed or not on disability. Also, I am sorry for this, but why everytime someone gets pregnant and can't afford to take care of themselves that they turn to welfare? If you can't take care of the child at least give it a chance with someone who can.
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