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my gf
may i tell to my self be confident ? that my gf is truly love me? even our ralationship is iligal to her side. but i understand that. but in our other friends our relationship is ligal. now our relationship is going strong and going to 6months on the day of aug28 now for me when i ask my gf f she really love me. she said yes! coz ur my life. but last month i caught my gf that she denied me as her bf .when the guy ask her on facebook. were argue & she cry to me & she said i really2 love u. i want 2 clarify
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Your age, your culture and country you live in may have heavy influence on your situation. I truly can not answer you satisfactorily without knowing more.I would assume that maturity in matters of relationship and experience in relating simply to members of the opposite sex and things like being truthful and having truly good communication all will come with age. Some people can make it to their 30's and still know nothing because they have never applied themselves in learning how to grow up and mature. Bit other than what i just said, I can not guess at what to suggest to you without knowing some facts more specific to your situation. It may not just be a matter of self confidence for you since you mention the legality of a relationship. You have to explain why your family would consider it legal and why hers would not. If I understand, you have dated 6 months. Dating is for the purpose of discovering whether there are things in common, what you like and don't like a bout a person....its an information gathering time. This imformation is to help a person decide if someone is the kind of person they can and want to be in a lifetime committed marriage to. At any point during this part of relating to someone, even if they have promised to date, a person can discover theres not enough in common and that there isn't enough chemistry...natural attraction.
Maybe in her eyes, dating never was a commitment to be your "girlfriend". i don't know her character personally to make any real observations about her,, just enough time to find out how much she does care about you. People say I love you too easily. People also use the word to show their preferance to a certain things like, I love Italian food or I love rock and roll music. When in a dating relationship, it is too easy for the heart to have some feelings for the other person, whether they are right for each other or not, or even if its an abusive relationship. And these feelings, while they may feel strong...may not be true real love and one won't know that they aren't until they have experienced other relationships and can make a comparison. These feelings are what keep two people together who are not right for each other when they should be parting ways for one reason or another. That may be the case for you too but I dont know enough to be able to say if thats for sure. Go with your gut feeling, and listen to your inner voice on these matters. If it truly is a legality issue such as the law of the land, then there isn't anything I can suggest to help you be able to break the law.
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